The single life
Don’t waste your life – 
learn to enjoy being single...
Lonely Singles find Jesus
      High on Jesus!
Do you know Jesus, the living God, our Creator? If you don’t know Him, we would like to help you get acquainted. If you do know Him, then the question you need to ask yourself is “Am I excited about Jesus?” and “Do I love being a Christian?”.

If you are an unhappy or sin loving Christian then something is wrong. That something is your need to be “born again”. When we are born again by the Holy Spirit, we receive a new heart that loves and wants Jesus in our life. That is when we become excited about being a Christian. Then Jesus gives us His power to live a holy life.

Change can be exciting especially when it is a heart change. Examine yourself today to see if you need this change.

Ten Commandments Corner

Jesus says “If you love me keep my commandments” John 14:15.  Because I love Jesus I will do as He asks.  The 10 commandments will not save me, but they are important because they show me how to love God and people, and what sin is.

Commandment # 8
“Thou shalt not steal.” Exodus 20:15

If you love someone you will not steal their possessions or their reputation. A loving person would never break into their neighbor’s house to steal a computer. A loving person would never engage in identity theft. A loving employer would never cheat an employee by paying an unfair wage. A loving person would never spread slanderous gossip to make another look bad. Jesus commands us to love one another and stealing just doesn’t fit into a loving lifestyle.  

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Unmarried and Unfulfilled?

Sometimes we single people experience the loneliness of being alone and the feeling that our life is a waste because we are unmarried. We long for human companionship and we may not live up to our potential because we are waiting for someone else to give meaning to our lives.

Truly living is making the most of the life you have today. If you are single, it means enjoying your singleness today. There are no guarantees that tomorrow will bring a companion, and the mature person will accept and flourish in the environment they are in today.

Don't waste your life, learn to enjoy being single. Instead of sitting at home alone, get involved in community projects that help people. This will open doors for you to reach your true potential and will give fulfillment. Making others happy will make you happy.

To ease loneliness, find a social group to join and be friendly. Our friendship group is a great place to start.  It has people who are adjusting to the single life and enjoying it.  
Jesus is single too!
Struggling with sexual sins?
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Singles, Jesus must come first in your life!  Don't put finding a marriage partner or a high paying job above Jesus.  Without Jesus in your marriage your relationship could be like war.  Without Jesus as your job coach you risk not having the wisdom to pick the best job.  Jesus knows your needs, He knows what you want.  Trust Him to supply your needs by talking to Him about your desires and reading the Bible, His Word, to learn about the life Jesus wants you to live.
single friends
What is the best use of a single person's time?making money
looking for a spouse
spreading the gospel
serving God & others
spending time with pets
having fun
furthering your education
Celebrate your singleness!