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This page is designed for the single lady and discusses topics that she may encounter in life.
“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.”
Proverbs 31:30
Ladies, how much are you willing to do for a man?
Jesus tells us that there is no greater love than that a person lays down their life for another. Are you willing to lay your life down for a man?
I totally agree with anything Jesus teaches, but I do not agree with the way we single women do it. For instance…
We single women seem all too eager to give our temple (body) to a man who won’t marry us. So we lay our life down by letting him have all the sexual pleasures he wants until he has his full and walks out on us. In turn we receive emotional heartbreak, incurable venereal diseases, or pregnancy.
We women lay our lives down for men by allowing them to move in with us. Somehow we think this will benefit our lives, but instead we get someone who is lazy, won’t help pay the bills, tries to control us, and we end up fighting and eventually kicking him out the door.
We women lay down our lives for men by allowing them to abuse us. We want male companionship so badly that we are willing to put up with the black eyes and the verbal “putdowns”. Afterall, maybe he’s right and we really are stupid and deserve to be punched in the face for the stupid things we say and do.
We lay down our lives for men by allowing them access to our finances. We give him money because he promises to pay it back after he hits the “big one”. We let him have the use of our car because he can’t seem to find that perfect job or he has too many DUI’s.
Ladies, it’s time we understand what Jesus means by “laying down our life for another”. When was the last time you gave all your strength and time to help the man in your life develop a close relationship with Jesus?
Lay down your life, whatever it takes, to save you and your man from a sinful life so that you may enjoy the spirit filled life that only Jesus gives.